Thursday, October 17, 2019

Good Watching

Lately Netflix is a waste of money, same for Amazon Prime and BBC iPlayer. The availability of titles that interest me is sparse to totally lacking; so I decided to post a wish list as guidance. A sensible idea as I have peculiar tastes.

Current viewing list - needs checking because I probably have seen some of these already

Ladies no. 1 Detective Agency*
Tunes of Glory*
 The Vicar of Dibley
Car Wash*
Cider with Rosie
Bull - tv series *
The Queen’s Sister
Hyde Park on Hudson
Rocketman
1917

Compatible titles are always a welcome suggestion.

Thursday, August 29, 2019

PPI refund

Today, with only a few hours left on the clock before the final closing deadline, I completed and submitted my refund request for PPI. I used the MSE automated online tool, Resolver. And now I just wait for the bank to reply.

We shall see what happens next. 


Note: the bastards refused the claim. I contested it and they kept refusing. Bastard banks win again.

Tuesday, July 02, 2019

A old Christmas memory

I’m not sure how the conversation turned to Christmas on a hot July day, perhaps it was because we were laughing at the cat’s taking possession of a cardboard shipping box. But I suddenly remembered a long ago Christmas when Adam was probably around 5 or 6 and Andrew just turned 3. We lived in Brooklyn, with the Phillips’ right upstairs above us in the huge old 3 family house. We were broke that year, not sure why but it was suddenly Christmas and what were we going to do about presents for the kids. We had enough money for food to make a bountiful, wonderful dinner. And we had enough money to buy each kid a reasonable, desirable gift. (Obviously this was a different sort of definition of “broke”.) What we didn’t have was the usual funds to allow the annual insane potlach of gifts to flood the floor around the Christmas tree. Well, so 1 gift it was. Christmas Eve we wrapped the gifts with shiny paper and ribbons. But the sight of 2 little boxes under the tree left us teary and apprehensive. The kids were going to be miserable and worst of all, the sacred Christmas morning photos would look like charity shop specials.
Then I had a sudden inspiration! We could wrap up empty boxes to look like gifts and put them as props under the tree for gorgeous photos. No one would ever know! So down to the basement we went to gather up empty boxes. Tom went out and grabbed a few more large boxes from the last minute open late local shops. By the time we were finished there was a wild cornucopia of brightly wrapped and beribboned gift boxes under the tree. Test photos looked sensational. 

So Christmas morning kids wake up, excited joy at first boxes they were given to open while Tom filmed. Then cameras off and we tried to persuade them to have breakfast. I remember trying to explain, to reason, but they grabbed for more boxes and tore off the paper to find ....empty boxes. 

They went wild .......with greed! They were tearing off the gift wrap and exchanging and bargaining who got which boxes. They LOVED the boxes. They were the greatest, neatest gift of all time. Forget breakfast, forget the toys we’d bought. They had BOXES!

The girls, Tavi and Kirsten came down the stairs then to see what the boys got and show off some of theirs. As they reached the dining room with the tree and the boxes, the, boys announced, “We got boxes!” There was a moment of silence and then the girls turned and pounded upstairs shouting to Dea, “ They got boxes! No fair, they got boxes!” 

It was insane, they all went nuts over a pile of empty cardboard boxes they could turn into anything their imagination allowed. And that was the gift of the Magi.

Tuesday, June 25, 2019

Saturday, June 22, 2019

First Strawberry

Finally the rain stopped and it was summer finally. Not sure what happened to Spring but that's gone and finished. Taking advantage of the bit of mild sunny weather, Alan went out to weed and generally lightly work at the garden. And there it was, after weeks of flowers blown away by rain and wind, something had survived and produced a strawberry! Hooray! The taste was amazingly sweet and delicately perfumed. Thanks go to Asti for planting them.


Sunday, June 09, 2019

The Great Mouse Clean Out

Ok, so not so great; more like little, quickie, starter clean out of the cupboard in question.

For some time now, our cat Rosie, has taken to prowling in front of one of the kitchen lower cupboards. She’d spread out in front of it, pace about and scratch at the door, sniff along the open edge of the door, and try to leap inside whenever I opened the cupboard door. Cats behave in that determined way when they are sure there’s a mouse inside and they intend to get it.

Alan insisted I was mistaken. I wasn’t. Tonight proved it. I decided the messy pile of sauce packets and bags of various kinds of sugars I stored on the top shelf needed organising in a large neat Tupperware box I had sitting unused in the utility closet.

So, I got out the storage box and went to pull out and organise the pile of small bags and packets in the cupboard. Immediately, I had pearl barley trickling over my hand from a new packet just bought last week. I looked closely - 3 nice jagged gnawed holes. Mice. More packets pulled out, more gnawed holes found. More bags tossed into the bin.

It’s all cleared out now. All the suspect packages in the bin. The shelf and surroundings all washed down with bleach. The few trustworthy intact packages wiped down and organised in the large protective box. Evidence organised and left for Alan to view. All finished except for profoundly thanking the cat and putting a mouse trap in the back of the cupboard. And calling the maintenance service to come seal the tiny opening in the wall.

Life is such fun.

Wednesday, June 05, 2019


How does your garden grow?

Moving right along, the garden Asti planted for us is blooming like crazy. The herbs are already being used and the strawberries are almost ready to pick. 

Saturday, May 18, 2019

Vacuum cleaner pt 2

So, I ordered a new vacuum cleaner and amazingly it arrived today - overnight delivery. Alan assembled it and it works ok so we’re back in business. It’s no Dyson tho and I feel the lack of quality fiercely. But it was a sensible, thrifty choice and will do the job. Alan agrees that when our finances are back in healthier shape we should replace this one with the Dyson I really want; so it works out in the end.

Friday, May 17, 2019

If it’s not one thing, it’s another

Halfway thru the weekly clean, Rosie our housekeeper announced that the vacuum cleaner had stopped working. No, not a fuse, didn’t blow a circuit, nothing we could reset to work again. It was just dead, Jim. Thoroughly and completely dead. So on top of my dead pc, I now have a dead vacuum cleaner. This one I had to replace immediately, no workarounds, no used handovers from family or friends. I picked out a cheap one that met our requirements, imposed hard discipline on myself - no Dyson! It arrives Monday; if the gods are kind and the benefit I applied for is approved and fast it will all be over painlessly. If not, I’ll just pay it out for a few months.

Meanwhile, the sun is shining and my garden is growing. Life ain’t so bad.

Friday, May 10, 2019

Three curses of increasing severity


May you live in interesting times
May you come to the attention of those in authority (May the government be aware of you).
May you find what you are looking for. (May your wishes be granted).

Thursday, April 11, 2019

Diet update

So after almost 6 successful weeks on my diet, I fell off the rails today. But, it’s not all doom and gloom. I’ll be right back on it tomorrow, actually I’m back on it already. So not a disaster. And - I didn’t fall off by eating chocolate, or a rich heavy cream sauce, etc. It was like slicing a banana into my cereal and putting 3 weetabix in my bowl instead of 2. Then I was suddenly so hungry at lunch I had a huge kosher frank on a bagel. Real food, for the most part healthy food, and I was really really hungry.
Lesson learned.
Back on schedule
Oh yes, I’ve lost 14 kilos so far.
Marvellous

Sunday, April 07, 2019

Hospital, diet, hospital, hospital

On Feb 19 I was taken to Charing Cross Hospital A&E by ambulance. I was admitted and stayed there 10 days. I’m told I had a massive kidney infection and a interesting list of various other problems. In the 2 weeks prior I had 2 serious falls, one in the bathroom, the other in the living room. I don’t recall ever having a major fall before, certainly never one I couldn’t get up from.

In any case, on the 19th I ended up propped against the edge of the guest sofa in Alan’s study, not able to get to my feet but not willing to slide onto the floor. The ambulance crew ended all questions by taking me to A&E.

At some point during my time in hospital, the food and drink on offer there being completely disgusting, and no diatrician or nutritionist available, I gave up and just drank cold water and orange juice until I was released. Great way to start a diet. I decided I would continue a sensible diet, with a goal of losing 2 lbs a week until I didn’t want to lose any more weight.

36 days later it’s still working, I’m getting stronger, and I’m down 17 kilos.